A 12 year old girl, who was shopping with her mother, was lured away
into a bathroom by a man in his mid to late 20's, and right off the bat,
the investigator refers to "having sex", and therefore, the media also
never mentions sexual assault. The investigator, a part of law
enforcement, ought to know that the age of consent is 17 in Texas, so, a
12 year old girl cannot consent, not to mention, when we are 12, 27 is
OLD! So, why does the police report say she wasn't an unwilling victim,
so now it's sex, not rape? Others are also blaming the victim, or
blaming other non related groups are at fault, which none makes any
sense.
Here is the ABC News article and video -
http://abc13.com/news/police-say-man-had-sex-with-12-year-old-girl-in-restroom/1066670/
The
article showing where the victim isn't an issue, then blaming other
groups that they are the problem, when a child molester or pedophile are
demented people, who have nothing to do with anyone else -
http://www.addictinginfo.org/2015/11/04/texas-detective-12-year-old-raped-in-cvs-bathroom-wasnt-necessarily-all-that-unwilling-video/
My
experience in dealing with issues, phone calls and snail mail are the
best forms of contact, especially when you can't make it there in
person. Considering that this is law enforcement, using the phone or
snail mail letters will ensure your voice will get there, since you can
at least leave a message on their phone.
Please call the Southside Place Police Department @ 713-668-2341
Detective
Michael Kelly is the officer who took the report. If his voice mail is
full, please ask for Police Chief Don McCall or Lieutenant Al Baker.
Your voice message suggestion (please feel free to use your own words):
Hello,
my name is _______________________. I am calling in regard to the CVS
incident where a 12 year old girl was sexually assaulted by a man in his
mid to late 20's. With the report that “She was not necessarily all
that unwilling, but at the age of 12 it doesn’t matter,” along with the
fact that the age of consent is 17 in Texas, this NEEDS to be listed on
the report as rape or sexual assault. 12 year old girls don't 'have sex
with' men who are in their mid to late 20's. To say that she wasn't
unwilling insinuates that she was a willing participant, which still, at
best, would be statutory rape. In reality, at the age of 12, we are
taught to listen to grown ups. Adults are supposed to be safe, and
obviously this at-large man was not, so, at worst, is first degree rape,
and also child sex abuse. To call it anything less, is not acceptable,
because you are holding a 12 year old child as more responsible than a
grown person who is approaching 30.
Or write (snail mail) @
Southside Police Department
ATTN: Detective Michael Kelly
6309 Edloe Ave.
Houston, TX 77005
The Chief of Police: Don McCall
The Lieutenant: Al Baker
The letter suggestion (again, please write in your own words):
Your Name
Your Address
Your City, State, zip
(optional phone or email)
Date writing your letter
Dear Detective Kelly;
I
am writing in concern about a sexual assault that happened to a 12 year
old girl at a CVS, by a man in his mid to late 20's, as reported by
ABC13 on Thursday, November 5, 2015. As a (parent - grandparent -
concerned citizen - aunt/uncle - pediatrician/other medical staff -
Godparent - your title in life), it is troublesome to see that the
report does not call the incident rape or sexual assault, but rather
having sex.
Being a tween who is probably taught
to respect and obey adults, what may look like "not unwilling" could
just mean that her life lessons were that she was just following
directions as she was taught. Now that an adult man has broken that
trust, how is this girl going to overcome this ordeal, especially as a
family oriented girl, shopping with her mother and grandmother? We need
to stop putting blame on children for sexual assaults, and put the
blame where it belongs. The adult that broke the trust and confidence
of safety and well being into the disaster zone. The fact that the
report states both not unwilling as well as stating they had sex,
insinuates that she is partly to blame for this incident. 12 year old
kids don't "have sex" with adult men in their late 20's. Childhood sex
abuse has long term negative effects, as well as shaming the victim.
Please take this case seriously.
Thank you for your
time, and please adjust the report to reflect that this is, indeed a
rape case on a child under the age of 13 by a perpetrator more than 4
years older than the legal age of adulthood. This is the only proper
way to handle this case.
Sincerely yours,
(Sign your name)
(print your name)
