Hard Bonus: Use the word “pierce” Easy Bonus: Mention a place you would like to escape winter or cold weather
I’m a person who speaks my mind when I see fit. I won’t stop When Hell Freezes Over, either. The freezing cold may pierce us to the bone, and go thaw out in Puerto Rico.
Hard Bonus: Incorporate a song title by The Pretenders Easy Bonus: Include your favorite beverage
While I hope everyone is In Good Spirits, this time of year can be difficult for those who don’t have anyone or are mourning a loss. It’s good to be kind, but sometimes our own nerves are shot… Don’t Get Me Wrong (Get Close album 1986), but yes, sometimes I’m the one who has an issue… It’s the reason why I don’t shop at usual retail stores unless I’m grocery shopping & will do locally owned ones 1st. Life is too crazy sometimes… I like the shorter lines at Mom & Pop stores, where I can get more personalized items and I’m not paying for a brand name, I’m investing in a product when I shop this way. Then, when I’m home, I like to relax & depending on if I want hot or cold, to chill with either a mocha or a cold Mexican coke in a glass bottle.
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Marvin Martian says Welcome November! This is Week 23 in Year 16 of Blogophilia! WELCOME DECEMBER! The holiday season is officially in full swing! Hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving celebration last week! Christmas, Hannukah and Kwanza are on the way…..
Hard Bonus: Showcase a difficult decision Easy Bonus: Mention a country in the Southern Hemisphere
Angel On Earth
None of us are perfect, and we all need to sincerely apologize at some point… Other times, we are owed one, and during the holiday season, we might feel obligated to accept the apology for the family functions. Yet, I don’t think forgiving means you have to take the people back. The Healing of Forgiveness is different for a lot of us. It feels good to forgive people. But what do we do if their apology is insincere so they keep doing their misdeeds or kick it up a notch? We don’t owe people our forgiveness for continuing to deal with it. Sometimes, the hard thing to do is to decide to forgive yourself for putting up with it for so long. Yes, let’s normalize that.
So, what do we do about the other person/people? Let them go. Grieve the relationship(s) with those who are still living… Accepting the losses to move forward can be very liberating. It’s ok to act as if they’re in Angola, never to be heard from again…
Here is the hard part… as an advocate, I speak up for others. It’s not that I am angry with other people, but it’s not as easy as leaving it in the past, because people are in need now. Whether it’s a hospital visit, going to the capitol, or anything in between, there are those without a voice who need someone to speak up about whatever injustice might be happening without looking for vengeance. Often it’s because we’ve experienced that ourselves, and didn’t have a voice nor advocate, to be the voice and advocate we needed for those who need us now.
A good way to heal from this kind of stress is to have a good music session.
Martien Ecrits, AKA Marvin Martian says: Welcome November! This is Week 22 in Year 16 of Blogophilia! Happy Thanksgiving to all the American Earthlings! This alien gives HUGE THANKS to all of you out there who write with us and support our writing community – you rock!
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Hard Bonus: Incorporate a lyric from Stevie Wonder Easy Bonus: Include a turkey or other kind of fowl
Dancing in the Rain
When holidays & birthdays come along, It’s a Celebration! Mostly… I cut contact with my immediate family, who moved out to the west coast anyway. Extended family are a bit far, and they have their own families to celebrate with. It’s been a tradition to have people who otherwise don’t have a place to go, and it started way back… I just continued the tradition, starting with New Year’s Eve, then expanded to all of the holidays including the 4th of July, Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve/Winter Solstice, Easter/Spring Equinox, etc. smaller holidays like Labor Day & Memorial Day people are welcome, too, except it seems like I work every holiday, which makes it difficult… But we manage. I haven’t been able to do much after dislocating then subsequent surgery, but I used to do the main entree, and we’d all pitch in. My son has been doing most of the cooking.
When you believe in things that you don’t understand, Then you sufferSuperstition by Stevie Wonder. I often ponder where superstition ends and mythology or religion starts. Like with Buddhism, you’re not required to worship the polytheistic Gods/Goddesses – just follow “The Way” to enlightenment. Even with Christianity, if we were to follow in Jesus’ path, would it be wrong to not believe in God? I don’t know… A lot of people of faith cannot fathom that… Yet I believe in doing for the good of all people. I guess I will keep doing what I think is right & be good with that.
Another thing that I do, being the rebel that I am, is ask why for Thanksgiving, it’s always some kind of fowl, whether it’s duck, goose, turkey… I don’t even have a round table to run around to see if the turkey can tag the duck, or maybe just decide to have the goose join in, too. One year we did Cornish hens. Another year we did something like lasagna… I don’t know, but it seems as if my regulars are shrinking. One of them passed on, and another returned to his old ways. Then due to moving, changes in other people’s routines, ailments, and maybe not feeling up to it, sometimes we’re lucky to get one person… which is fine, but, it would be helpful to know, ahead of time because since I don’t want to make a 12+ pound turkey just for 4 people… But, oh well, I guess I can make to-go containers for people who are hungry that didn’t want to come.
Welcome November! This is Week 21 in Year 16 of Blogophilia! And it’s Writer’s Choice Week – YOU choose your own topics and bonus prompts, and Marvin provides the photo! Let your imagination run free, unleash your muse and WRITE ON!
Hard Bonus: WRITER’S CHOICE – use homonyms Easy Bonus: WRITER’S CHOICE – use homophones
Sunflower Field
Fall Flowers in Wisconsin like sunflowers, aster, Asiatic lilies, cone flowers, roses, daisies, clematis, and shooting stars are a nice way to keep colors in the yard. I don’t have any in mine, though. It’s still difficult for me to garden, plus I don’t have the space I need to pull this off.
Of course, I’d have to buy seeds, and figure out where to put them by, especially out front since we don’t have a flat yard and the areas I have already are filled with irises. I have more space in the back, even though I have eight edible plants that I ate.
AI trying to correct what I write is so annoying since the whole gist of what I’m posting is lost on it… I’d rather pay an editor, but not for a fun blog… if I had that kind of money, I’d hire a landscaper.
This year, in 2024, it is on December 3, 2024 - to give to your favorite nonprofit and be able to get a tax deduction when you do your taxes the next year.
First, I'd like for you to consider to give the gift of music by donating to local music: Racine Concert Band: http://www.racineconcertband.com/ The RCB is one of the oldest local bands in the country, bringing to you 103 years of free music to the community in 2025. Also there's a collaboration with the high schools to mentor young musicians to be at their best. Thank you for your consideration.
And just beware of certain places that seem good... I'm sharing this again, with the understanding that the 2nd in command of the Hospitality Center moved on, which is great for him, but now I feel like I really can't go to this certain place without being on the buddy system, not just for the situation, but the fact that the social worker either can't read & goes by hearsay or if she did read, has extremely low comprehension & wants to start an argument over something I never said... It's sad, because there are so many people who rely on that place, but I just think that women need to be aware, you'll get asked to leave if you're touched inappropriately, and the breakfasts might not be as kosher as they seem.
From Martien Ecrits: This week’s topic exemplifies what keeps our writers going – the NEED TO WRITE! What does writing do for you? How does it feel for you? Why do you do it – is it because of the creativity, personal fulfillment, gaining followers, or is it a release of emotions? Or perhaps it is something else? Or maybe all of the above? Get creative as you express your need to write – by writing! Come share your thoughts, as we at the Marvin House look forward to reading your writes this week. Join us at Blogophilia, the place for blogging, fun and friendship for over 16 years!
Hard Bonus: Incorporate the term fresnel or the Fresnel concept Easy Bonus: Include the words “patience” and “patients”
Eye Sea Ewe
It seems strange, that in school, I couldn’t just get a writing assignment & do it on the spot. Yet when it came to do a term paper, and it came down to Need to Write, I could get my head together and get it done. I didn’t get into creative writing until after college, but always wrote well when it came to big assignments, letters to elected officials, etc. I felt like I was one of the patients that had no patience when it came to stuff like this in school.
I guess it comes to the Fresno Effect: Steep Angle = Weak Reflection; Shallow Angle = Strong Reflection. Maybe my angle was too steep or too wide or too something to lack focus, now I have it in my mind to get the bird’s eye view, at least for myself. I enjoy blogging, doing the multimedia challenge, and I have my own spot to write my stories when I’m up to taking time to type (I’m getting better at 2 handed typing again, so I’ll resume, I’ll post links as I’m ready).
Welcome November! This is Week 19 in Year 16 of Blogophilia! Did you remember to set your clocks back last night?
A HUGE ALIEN THANK YOU to all of the participants of the Marvin October Multimedia Challenge (MOMC)!!! It was a huge success, and we at the Marvin House are so appreciative to everyone who participated.
Hard Bonus: Incorporate a line or quote from Arthur Rimbaud Easy Bonus: Include the term “digerati”
Matrix blinding
Modern technology… gotta love it yet we want to hate it at the same time. Screen Shots can be taken, so be careful what you write. As an advocate, I stand on what I write, so, if one is offended, I have to wonder why… then there are those who don’t read, then argue with me about something I didn’t say…
I was accused of saying that I was going to shut this place down, and the whole kitchen staff was filthy… As a concerned citizen, after I inform the higher ups & then get told to never talk about this to staff, volunteers, board members, etc. I feel as if it’s my duty to inform the public. I’d like someone to show me where I said those things… No, I have not edited anything, please look at the date… Updates would reflect a new time stamp. Original to the time I wrote these. When I mentioned some of the other things, the person who started getting ouchy all of a sudden doesn’t want to talk about it because it’s making her “very uncomfortable” which tells me she did not read it… Yet she wants to argue about I said what I didn’t say, and “threatens” to bring it up, and I said go ahead… so here it is… It’s obvious she’s no digerati, either, because she’d have brought it up to read it again, if she wanted to prove herself. I just wonder how she got to be a social worker & hired for 5 years at the same place, if her comprehension skills are so low… Oh, well…
Hard Bonus: Use the word “Rudeneja” — Meaning: The way nature or the weather begins to feel like Autumn Easy Bonus: Include a song title by Jim Croce
grapes of vinyard
Leaves of Gold marks the start of Halloween season with rudeneja in the air. I was hiking in the picture and Jim Croce asked “Which way are you goin’?”
I was able to attend one of the candidate forums, this one was sponsored by the NAACP and the Racine Interfaith Coalition hosted registration and refreshments. This is MY recap, any clarification will have to come from the candidates. We have 6 candidates running for this position:
Cory Sebastian – she wants to hear all sides, and consider our socio-economic as well as cultural diversity of all ages before making a decision. Please click her name for more details, and “she” to get to know her as a person. As a small business owner and serving on various nonprofits boards and as a volunteer, and is eager to help Racine county as a whole, flourish. She is also currently serving as an alderperson on Racine City Council.
Adam Jaskie is a newcomer to the public eye. As a family man from Waterford, he could use some extra help filling up nomination papers. He has a “loud voice” for the people, and is willing to go up the chain to get more to help Racine county. He offers a fresh voice.
Lorenzo Santos has been involved with government offices such as Emergency Management for Ready Racine County, and a former Navy Reserves officer. He believes in grassroots organizing and believes that we empower everyone by getting people involved from the bottom up. He understands the inner workings of government.
Wendy Christensen is the current Clerk of Courts and believes in the community. As a proud Racinian, she wants to run. She wasn’t present at this forum, so I don’t have her answers.
Melvin Hargrove is a strong community leader and an ordained minister and founded Zoe Ministries. He has served in the Army, Racine police and fire, school board and more. He is for the development of our young people.
Ralph Malicki has rooted in Racine, and has been a successful business owner in Racine, and has helped many people, groups, local/regional small businesses and produce farms/orchards, and so many more. He has also served on many nonprofits of all types and brings knowledge of where the gaps could be closed between government services and nonprofits.
Moderator Question 1: Out of all of the items that the late County Executive Jonathan Delagrave was working on, what do you agree with most and what would you cancel?
Jaskie supports the 0.5% sales tax – not to disregard anyone, but would be a small solution to fund necessities like 911 services and infrastructure
Hargrove supports the sales tax to keep city and county jobs going as well as health services across the board
Malicki supports the sales tax and would prioritize where it would go
Santos agrees with the sales taxto continue the many vital programs that Racine County residents have come to rely on.
Sebastian supports for mental health, youth programs, and to share services to benefit the city and county
Moderator question 2: What are the thoughts about public safety
Jaskie mentioned state tax surplus in Madison and would be a loud voice to bring some of those funds here, to help fund school safety, include greater scope to speak loud for us on a larger level
Hargrove would steer conversation toward work, environment, partnerships, and make Racine a place to go, to live, and to work
Malicki has proven himself in bringing together people and connecting people with churches and community groups to bridge the gaps in services
Santos wants to equip the people responsible for safety and bridging the gaps in staffing underserved areas
Sebastian believes we all deserve to be safe, adapt to the budget and continue serving in the best way possible
Moderator question 3: How would you approach the fentanyl and drug issues?
Malicki would be proactive about getting addiction support by supporting programs like AA/NA, public health services, and reach out to places that can add to the services such as the nonprofit sector, to help save public funds
Santos would work on prevention through education, utilize law enforcement and treatment programs including social programs to help teach the public to say no
Sebastian loves nonprofits which often bridge the gaps that the public sector can’t do, and to look at duplicate services to see if some could redirect to areas not covered
Jaskie wants to step up services to also look at trauma therapy as many who face addiction issues have underlying trauma that led to that in the 1st place. (as an advocate, I appreciate this)
Hargrove would bring together the family, community, and maybe form a cabinet of teamwork to tackle this issue
Moderator question 4: how to balance the budget if the budget passes or fails:
Santos wants to support public safety, economic support, health services lik LS, HHS, and prioritize on what should be on the budget
Sebastian would work on the best way with what we have and together, work through things by not overlapping services. nonprofits can help bridge gaps
Jaskie would cover he holes and would like to legalize medical cannabis, prioritize education and student safety
Hargrove would cover mandates first, youth jobs and trade programs, education, and housing
Malicki is willing to make the tough decisions and support partnerships with businesses, nonprofits and more, and would set priorities by talking to people
Public question 1: Homelessness is an issue, HALO is underutilized. What can you do to help people?
Sebastian believes all deserve a roof over their heads and to be safe. Nonprofits can totally help fill this gap with other resources as well
Jaskie would attract developers, get granting to our area and collaborate with other leadership to make things happen, reiterates being a big voice for Racine
Hargrove would push for leadership from the entire county to collaborate to attract people to come to visit, spend money here, and make it attractive for businesses to come here
Malicki would focus on HALO and collaborate and build bridges between various agencies to support jobs, transportation, rehab and education beyond high school
Santos supports nonprofits to help as inflation is up, and there are gaps where people need help, and would reach out to state and federal legislators to press them to act as well
Public question 2: The economy is down, and has been for decades. What kind of permanent economic development to make the heart of the city and the county flourish again?
Hargrove would work with agencies like RDCD, RAMAC, etc to ensure Microsoft is stable here, and that would attract more businesses here, help farms reach out to get more help, and reach out to new partnerships
Malicki believes Microsoft is the biggest thing going on, and pushing the trades to foster long-term/futuristic skills as well as to attract more jobs to the city and reinvigorate the economy
Santos would prioritize making US attractive to net new builders that will follow Microsoft. average age of Racine is 40, so for the long-term, would like to attract younger people to the area, and supports a commuter rail to bring people to the area.
Sebastian is excited to build a balance of who works, lives and plays here as well as push trades for young people, and looks forward to what Microsoft can bring
Jankie admits that Microsoft isn’t the end-all, but it’s a great start, and how this can lead to revitalization because more business would follow. He also supports light rail.
The National Alliance on Mental Illness had a candidate forum earlier in the month, which I could not attend, so I will not answer anything from that one, as I was not there.
I’d like to ask my own question: Many 50+ people are struggling financially. Nonprofits aren’t the end-all. Those who are underemployed because they can’t work in factory, warehouse, or fast food due to health issues. How do you intend to bridge the gaps for this group, especially into retirement, because some of us can’t wait 20 years for economic programs? This is a serious concern for me and several people I know.