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I think people use holidays to both Giving & Forgiving. It’s great when families & long time friends can make it work, but often, I see toxic relationships last another few years because people who have no intent on changing will play nice, and because we’re hard wired to want to be with family, we accept.
While yes, life is about people, especially the holidays, just remember, you’re the most important person in your life! Without you, other people don’t have you! It’s okay to walk away from toxic people, abusive relationships, etc. If there are reasons to break up with your spouse, or dump your friends, these same rules apply to your family. They don’t get to keep you to abuse, just because they’re your parent, sibling, cousin, etc.
I chose to walk away, basically letting go. People can move on without forgiving, and the decision is yours, whether you do or not. Just because you do, doesn’t mean you’re accepting them back into your life. I like Dr. Laura’s explanation of The Difference Between Forgiveness & Letting Go
Anyway, here is toasting you, a gift of life all on your own, and wishing you a nice holiday season full of safety. For people who feel like they don’t have anyone, just know that I am thinking about you. You’re welcome at MY table, anytime.
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